The Dilemma of life and Marriages

Every human being who is on this planet will get married. You will get married too. Have you ever think that what's new in this. Obviously marriage is more than having sexual relationship but what's new in this. Doing job and coming home is daily routine of every person. You will also spend your life in this and finally the last day will come. Don't you think that you are being unfair to yourself. Once you will get married, You will officially start planning your life. Having honey moon period and then kid and good job. Kid will get admission in recognized collage or university. You will be a proud father. You will plan your retirement and then life will go on till the last breathe. Is there actually anything new. Let us assume that Hinduism is right and after your demise you will sent to God. If he will question you that what was new in your life? So what will be your answer. You were not Edison and say that I invented bulb. You cant say because you planned your life like a common man. You were not Buddha or Jesus Or Gandhi. You cant claim that you were torch bearer for many people. You were a simple professional and you spent your entire life thinking about credit card and home loan. By saying this, I don't want to say that these are worthless. Even Gandhi ji was married and he had four sons. But he had a respected journey. He achieved something for entire coming generation. I am relating everything with marriage because your life will take a new turn after marriage. Will you be able to manage your life like Gandhi or you are also going to take a dip where most of the people are already gone and your are going to be one of them. Hinduism says that you will get a new life after this but are you ok with this that you will get a new life? Are you willing to spend your life in this unpredictable hope. Have you ever think that this might be the test of you. The God might be watching you and hoping that you will do something new. You will be the guy who will make that change but you are not aware. What Bagat Singh did was requirement of time. We were not free to express ourselves. Are you a slave today? Then why are you behaving like that. The answer is no but yet you are not freed too. You have been given a plan of action and you are following this without questioning that who created this. Was he a mad or scholar? Everyone have common problem now a days. Job, sister's marriage, promotion and all. There is nothing new in problems also. I am worried for me and everyone because we are not asking right question to ourselves. Life is not a mobile game where your are selecting your own fielding and making centuries. Sometimes your are getting clean bold and then you are starting a new game. Reality is that you have only one inning and you are not sure about next follow on. Your are repeating same script and process which was followed thousands of years ago. Still that is going on and we are not taking a new step as a human being or society. Your might not be social but I am sure that you love yourself at least. Let's take an example and that example is me. I was looking for a job and finally got it, I have future planning related to my brother and sister and then my parents. Few people are suggesting that I should also get married and then new circle of life will begin. What I was doing for my parents and sister that I will do for my wife and child. In this whole process where am I? Most of the time people will say that time will teach you but it's passing day by day and 29th years of my life is knocking. I believe my well wisher but what if I am not getting answer, Will that well wisher be responsible? Obviously No. We cant depend upon fake and baseless hope. When we were in collage, we were clueless. You were told that once you will have degree then this will happen and that will happen. Where is that algebra teacher? He is also missing. Moral of the story is this that we are watching a news show. Once we will be close to conclusion that we were mislead by news Channel. Channel will bring a new show with new claim. We as a human being are in great confusion. We are watching drama of life/marriages and all which your great grandfather did 100 years ago. There is difference between you and your great grand father that he was not educated hence he was fool but you are an educated fool. Life is something which we are not living. There is something that needs to be invented. There is one person who can help you that is only you. Not only the air, your mind is also polluted. Start cleaning it and take a fresh breathe. Be a director of your life and make your own film.

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